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Dr. Lance Smith

Dr. Lance Smith, LMFT

Therapist in California · 25+ years of experience

Experienced therapist for stress and relationships

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  • 25 years experience
  • LMFT in California
  • Practical goal focus

About Lance

Dr. Lance Smith is an LMFT with 25 years of clinical experience who helps people struggling with stress and anxiety. He also supports those facing relationship strain, depression, grief, addictions, trauma, parenting challenges, and a range of intimacy and family concerns. His style is calm and direct, aiming to make hard conversations easier to manage.

He creates a respectful space where people can talk through what brought them to therapy. He listens first, then works with clients to set clear, practical goals. Sessions focus on small changes that add up, not on jargon or long explanations.

Dr. Smith blends several approaches to fit each person’s needs. He draws on Cognitive Behavioral Therapy to identify unhelpful thoughts and try new behaviors. He uses Attachment-Based and Client-Centered ideas to strengthen relationships and the way people connect with others. He also includes Solution-Focused tools to map quick steps toward immediate problems.

His background includes decades of work across family and individual concerns, and experience supporting people with ADHD, autism spectrum issues, and caregiver stress. He has helped with panic attacks, post-traumatic stress, and life transitions. He aims to meet people where they are and move at a pace that feels manageable.

Dr. Smith practices in California as a licensed marital and family therapist. He speaks English and combines practical strategies with a compassionate approach so clients can build better habits and clearer ways of relating.

Areas of expertise

Primary focus

Stress, AnxietyRelationship issuesFamily conflictsDepression

Also works with

AddictionsTrauma and abuseGriefIntimacy-related issuesParenting issuesAnger managementSelf esteemBipolar disorderCoping with life changesCompassion fatigueADHD

Additional focus areas

AbandonmentAttachment issuesAutism and Asperger SyndromeBlended family issuesCaregiver issues and stressCommunication problemsFamily of origin issuesFamily problemsForgivenessGuilt and shameHospice and end-of-life counselingMulticultural concernsPanic disorder and panic attacksPost-traumatic stressSelf-loveSocial anxiety and phobiaYoung adult issues

Therapeutic approaches

Attachment-Based TherapyClient-Centered TherapyCognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT)Gottman MethodSolution-Focused TherapyTrauma-Focused TherapyInternal Family Systems

Experience

25+ years

Credentials

Oklahoma, Utah, California

Languages

English

How his approaches guide online work

Dr. Smith commonly uses Cognitive Behavioral Therapy to help people notice unhelpful thought patterns and try new behaviors. CBT is useful for stress, panic, and anxiety because it breaks problems into small, testable steps. He also draws on Attachment-Based Therapy to look at how relationships shape feelings and reactions, which can help with intimacy and relationship concerns.

Finding the right approach is part of the therapy process. He collaborates with each person to choose methods that match their goals, needs, and comfort level. Together they decide whether to focus more on thinking and behavior, relationship patterns, or quick problem-solving steps.

Confirm the available session formats before booking, as options are not specified here. Online therapy can make it easier to fit sessions into a busy life by removing travel time and allowing check-ins during breaks. It can also allow work that focuses on communication skills, thought exercises, and step-by-step behavior changes in ways that fit into everyday routines.

Frequently asked questions

What concerns does this therapist help with?

This therapist supports people dealing with stress and anxiety as well as relationship strain, depression, grief, addictions, trauma, parenting challenges, and related concerns.

What is the therapy style like?

Sessions are calm and down-to-earth. The therapist listens first, then helps set clear, achievable goals and focuses on practical steps you can try between sessions.

What kind of experience does the therapist have?

He brings 25 years of clinical experience working with individuals and couples on a wide range of issues, including panic attacks, post-traumatic stress, and family stress.

What credentials and location apply?

He is an LMFT licensed in California and practices in that state.

Which languages are available for sessions?

Sessions are offered in English.

Can international clients work with this therapist?

International clients are not currently accepted.

How does cost and billing work?

Fees vary with location and therapist availability; sessions use a subscription that can be canceled at any time.

How do I begin working together?

Select the Start Therapy button, fill out a short matching questionnaire, and schedule according to the therapist's availability.

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