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Shirley Marks

Shirley Marks, LMFT

Therapist in Tennessee · 44+ years of experience

Practical therapy for stress and relationships

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  • Helps with addiction
  • Focus on relationships
  • Encourages confidence

About Shirley

Shirley Marks is a licensed marriage and family therapist who focuses on practical help for people facing stress and anxiety. She has worked in Tennessee for 44 years and aims to make beginning therapy as straightforward as possible. Shirley encourages people to take the first step and recognizes how much courage that can take.

She helps people address addictions and problems that affect close relationships. That includes struggles with mood, motivation, self-esteem, and confidence. She also supports people dealing with grief, trauma and abuse, and issues connected to intimacy and sexual behavior.

In sessions she emphasizes an open space where thoughts and feelings can be shared without judgment. Conversations are direct and aimed at finding concrete ways to cope with life changes and pressures. Shirley pays attention to patterns that come from family of origin, communication problems, and codependency so clients can make different choices.

Her background includes long experience working with substance and process addictions, domestic violence concerns, and multicultural or prejudice-related stressors. She brings steady, practical guidance to problems such as career strain, eating concerns, bipolar and depressive symptoms, and guilt or shame.

People who want help with relationship conflict, forgiveness, or setting healthier boundaries often find focus in sessions. To begin, Shirley asks people to complete a short matching questionnaire and then schedule a first meeting according to availability.

Areas of expertise

Primary focus

AddictionsRelationship issuesFamily conflictsSelf esteemCoping with life changes

Also works with

Stress, AnxietyLGBTTrauma and abuseGriefIntimacy-related issuesEating disordersCareer difficultiesBipolar disorderDepression

Additional focus areas

Antisocial personalityCodependencyCommunication problemsDomestic violenceDrug and alcohol addictionFamily of origin issuesForgivenessGuilt and shameInfidelityMulticultural concernsPrejudice and discriminationProcess addiction (porn, exercise, gambling)Women's issues

Experience

44+ years

Credentials

Tennessee

Languages

English

Evidence-based techniques and online therapy options

Shirley uses evidence-based therapeutic techniques that focus on changing unhelpful patterns and building coping skills. One common approach involves identifying behavioral patterns that feed stress and anxiety, then practicing new responses to reduce their impact. Another method concentrates on relationship and communication skills to improve how people connect and resolve conflict.

Choosing the right approach is part of the work. Shirley will collaborate with each person to pick methods that match their goals, needs, and comfort level. Together they review what is helping and what can be adjusted so therapy stays practical and relevant.

Session formats are not specified in the biography, so confirm current options before booking. Online sessions can make it easier to fit appointments into a busy life, allow shorter check-ins when needed, and reduce travel time. Talk with the therapist about what will work best for scheduling, pacing, and how you prefer to meet so sessions fit into everyday routines.

Frequently asked questions

What concerns does Shirley help with?

She works with people facing stress, anxiety, addictions, relationship and family issues, grief, trauma, self-esteem, and mood concerns such as depression and bipolar symptoms.

What is her therapeutic style like?

Sessions focus on open, nonjudgmental conversation and practical steps. The aim is to identify patterns and develop workable coping strategies.

How much experience does she have?

Shirley has 44 years of professional experience working with a wide range of behavioral and relationship concerns.

What credentials and location apply?

She is a Licensed Marriage and Family Therapist - LMFT - practicing in Tennessee.

Which languages are supported?

Sessions are offered in English.

Can international clients work with her?

She does not accept international clients at this time.

How are sessions paid for and what does it cost?

Costs vary with location and therapist availability; sessions use a subscription that can be canceled at any time.

How do I get started?

Click the Start Therapy button, complete a short matching questionnaire, and schedule a meeting based on the therapist's availability.

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