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Holly Lampkin

Holly Lampkin, LMFT

Therapist in Oklahoma · 7+ years of experience

Compassionate therapist for stress and relationships

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  • Stress and anxiety
  • Relationship focus
  • Practical coping tools

About Holly

Holly Lampkin is a Licensed Marriage and Family Therapist (LMFT) based in Oklahoma who helps people manage stress and anxiety. She also supports people facing relationship and intimacy concerns, depression, addictions, trauma and abuse, grief, and self-esteem struggles. Holly aims to make the first steps into therapy feel manageable and straightforward for someone who is worried or overwhelmed.

Holly uses a mix of collaborative, evidence-informed approaches. She draws on cognitive behavioral methods to spot unhelpful thinking patterns and ACT to help people notice what matters most. Emotionally-Focused Therapy and the Gottman Method guide work on emotional closeness and communication in relationships. Sessions focus on clear goals and small, practical steps clients can try between meetings.

Her background includes seven years of clinical experience and practice across Oklahoma. As an LMFT she focuses on relational issues alongside individual concerns. She works with people who want to change long-standing patterns, heal from past hurts, and build more satisfying connections with themselves and others.

In sessions she listens without judgment and helps clients name emotions and set reachable goals. She offers concrete coping strategies for anxiety, tools for managing cravings and addictive behaviors, and techniques to improve communication and intimacy. Holly also supports people navigating life transitions and body-image or sexual concerns.

Her approach is flexible and tailored to each person. She collaborates with clients to choose which therapy methods fit best. To begin, clients complete a short matching questionnaire and schedule according to therapist availability.

Areas of expertise

Primary focus

Stress, AnxietyRelationship issuesFamily conflictsIntimacy-related issuesDepression

Also works with

AddictionsLGBTTrauma and abuseGriefEating disordersAnger managementSelf esteemCoping with life changesCoaching

Additional focus areas

AbandonmentAging and geriatric issuesAttachment issuesBDSM, kink, and alternative sex cultureBlended family issuesBody imageCodependencyCommitment issuesCommunication problemsControl issuesCoping with natural or human-caused disasterDependent personalityDissociationDivorce and separationDomestic violenceDrug and alcohol addictionEating and food-related issuesEmptinessFamily of origin issuesFamily problemsFatherhood issuesFertility issuesForgivenessGender dysphoriaGuilt and shameImpulsivityInfidelityIsolation / lonelinessJealousyLife purposeMen's issuesMidlife crisisMoney and financial issuesMood disordersNarcissismPanic disorder and panic attacksPolyamory / non-monogamous relationshipsPost-traumatic stressPregnancy and childbirthProcess addiction (porn, exercise, gambling)Seasonal Affective Disorder (SAD)Self-loveSex addictionSexual assault and abuseSexual dysfunctionSexualitySocial anxiety and phobiaWomen's issuesWorkplace issuesYoung adult issues

Therapeutic approaches

Acceptance and Commitment Therapy (ACT)Client-Centered TherapyCognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT)Emotionally-Focused Therapy (EFT)Gottman MethodMindfulness TherapyNarrative TherapySolution-Focused TherapyTrauma-Focused Therapy

Experience

7+ years

Credentials

Oklahoma, Colorado

Languages

English

Approaches that guide online work

Acceptance and Commitment Therapy (ACT) helps people notice unhelpful thoughts and then choose actions that line up with their values. It is useful for anxiety, stress, and situations where avoidance keeps problems in place. Cognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT) focuses on identifying thinking patterns and testing them with experiments and behavioral changes to reduce symptoms like worry and low mood. Emotionally-Focused Therapy (EFT) concentrates on emotions and attachment needs to improve closeness and repair hurt in relationships.

Choosing the right approach is part of the process. The therapist will work together with the client to decide which methods match their goals, needs, and preferences. That plan can change as progress is made and new priorities emerge.

Session formats are not listed in the biography, so please confirm current session options before booking. Online therapy can make attending sessions easier to fit into a busy week, allow shorter check-ins when needed, and reduce travel time. It can also let people use video or phone in situations where being on camera is difficult. A collaborative plan will consider which format best supports each client's day-to-day life.

Frequently asked questions

What kinds of difficulties does Holly address?

She helps people with stress, anxiety, relationship and intimacy issues, depression, addictions, trauma and abuse, grief, eating and body-image concerns, anger, self-esteem, and coping with life changes.

What is her therapy style like?

Her style is collaborative and straightforward. Sessions focus on listening, naming emotions, setting goals, and practicing practical skills between meetings.

How much clinical experience does she have?

She has seven years of professional experience working with individual and relational concerns in Oklahoma.

What are her credentials and where is she based?

She is a Licensed Marriage and Family Therapist (LMFT) with licensure in Colorado and Oklahoma and practices out of Oklahoma.

Which languages are available for sessions?

Sessions are offered in English.

Can international clients work with her?

She is not currently accepting international clients.

How are fees and payment handled?

Cost varies with location and therapist availability; sessions use a subscription that can be canceled at any time.

How do I start working with her?

Select the Start Therapy button, complete a short matching questionnaire, and then schedule according to therapist availability.

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