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Thomas Wolff

Thomas Wolff, LPC

Therapist in Oklahoma · 34+ years of experience

Calm, experienced counselor for stress and trauma

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  • 34 years experience
  • Uses ACT and CBT
  • Oklahoma based LPC

About Thomas

Thomas Wolff is an LPC (Licensed Professional Counselor) practicing in Oklahoma. He helps people who are feeling overwhelmed by stress and anxiety, and those coping with depression, grief, or trauma. He speaks English and works with a wide range of concerns that often come with major life changes.

With 34 years of experience, he offers straightforward, calm guidance. Sessions focus on what is happening now and what steps a person can try between meetings. He values clear conversation and practical tools that can be used in day-to-day life.

His approach draws on several methods, including cognitive behavioral ideas that look at thought and behavior patterns, client-centered listening that follows the person’s pace, and techniques for processing painful memories. Thomas aims to match methods to each person’s needs rather than using a single fixed style.

People come to him for many concerns beyond stress and anxiety. These include relationship issues, parenting strain, substance concerns, sleep or eating problems, chronic illness or pain, and difficulties with self-esteem or isolation. He also works with issues tied to attachment, abandonment, and compassion fatigue.

Thomas describes therapy as a collaborative effort. He helps people set goals, try small experiments, and notice what changes. His tone is supportive and pragmatic, geared toward helping people regain a steadier day-to-day rhythm.

Areas of expertise

Also works with

AddictionsRelationship issuesFamily conflictsGriefIntimacy-related issuesEating disordersSleeping disordersParenting issuesCareer difficultiesBipolar disorderCoping with life changesCompassion fatigue

Additional focus areas

AbandonmentAttachment issuesAutism and Asperger SyndromeCaregiver issues and stressChronic pain, illness, and disabilityCodependencyCommunication problemsDependent personalityDisruptive Mood Dysregulation Disorder (DMDD)DissociationFamily problemsForgivenessGuilt and shameImpulsivityIsolation / lonelinessLife purposeVeteran and Armed Forces IssuesMood disordersObsessions, compulsions, and OCDPanic disorder and panic attacksParanoiaPersonality disordersPostpartum depressionPost-traumatic stressProcess addiction (porn, exercise, gambling)Seasonal Affective Disorder (SAD)Self-harmSelf-loveSex addictionSexual dysfunctionSocial anxiety and phobiaYoung adult issues

Therapeutic approaches

Acceptance and Commitment Therapy (ACT)Client-Centered TherapyCognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT)Existential TherapyEye Movement Desensitization and Reprocessing (EMDR)Imago Relationship TherapyMindfulness TherapySolution-Focused TherapyTrauma-Focused Therapy

Experience

34+ years

Credentials

Oklahoma

Languages

English

How chosen approaches fit into online work

Acceptance and Commitment Therapy (ACT) helps people notice thoughts and feelings without being stuck by them. It focuses on values and small actions a person can take to move toward a life that matters to them. Cognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT) looks at the link between thoughts, feelings, and actions and offers simple exercises to test new ways of thinking and behaving. Eye Movement Desensitization and Reprocessing (EMDR) is a method used to process distressing memories that can show up after trauma; it aims to reduce the intensity of those memories and the reactions they trigger.

Finding the right approach is part of the work. The therapist will discuss goals, preferences, and what has or has not helped before. Together they decide which methods to try and adjust the plan as progress is made, so sessions stay aligned with what the person needs.

Confirm current session options before booking to know which online formats are provided. Online therapy can make it easier to fit sessions into a busy week, cut commute time, or allow a shorter check-in when schedules demand it. It also makes it possible for people outside Oklahoma to connect, while the therapist and client work together to shape how sessions best fit daily life.

Frequently asked questions

What kinds of problems does he help with?

He supports people dealing with stress, anxiety, trauma and abuse, depression, grief, relationship and parenting concerns, and related challenges like sleep, eating, and chronic pain.

What is his general approach in therapy?

Therapy is practical and conversational. He combines client-centered listening with techniques that address thoughts and behaviors and tools for processing painful memories.

How much clinical experience does he have?

He brings 34 years of professional experience working with people across a wide age range and many concerns.

What are his credentials and where is he located?

He is an LPC, which stands for Licensed Professional Counselor, and practices in Oklahoma.

Can sessions be done in languages other than English?

Sessions are offered in English.

Are international clients accepted?

He does accept international clients; confirm any scheduling and time zone details when arranging sessions.

How does pricing and payment work?

Cost varies with location and therapist availability; sessions use a subscription that can be canceled at any time.

What are the first steps to begin therapy?

Select the Start Therapy button, complete a short matching questionnaire, and then schedule sessions according to the therapist's availability.

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